1.Focus On What You Can Give to A Friend not what you can Get Out of Friendship.
-If being happy is your motive for wanting someone to be your friend then you are not being a real friend.
Dont get caught up in keeping tabs on who has given most in the friendship.
Give to your friends regardless of how much they give to you.
2.Encourage Your Friend
-Real friends inspire and push each other to be the best that they can be rather than drag each other down.They are happy when other people achive their goals.